Is there really success being experienced with online dating? What is the success rate of online dating? Can you be successful with online dating?
I am not a success story, let us get that straight right now, but I am here to tell you what people are looking for and why they use online dating. The success of online dating is not different than any other type of dating. You get what you are willing to put into it.
This is how online dating works. You pick a dating site to join and then you meet someone. You read their profile, which is basically an overview of how they view themselves. This will give you an idea of the confidence of the person and some of the basics.
Then, you start chatting or e-mailing this person. Hopefully they are interested too and you start interviewing them. Online dating is great for the beginning because you can ask a lot of questions without feeling awkward. The only problem is you don’t get the body language to go along with the reactions to your questions.
Online dating has proven to be successful and is a great way to meet people, but take caution. Just like with any other type of dating, there are losers, players, married people cheating, and actual romantics. I think that if you are serious about finding your mate you should explore all the options with your best effort.
So if you are going to use online dating, use it successfully. One tip I will give you right off the bat is to be completely honest. If you lie about your appearance, personality, or anything else, you are just setting yourself up to be dumped on. The other person will find out before you ever get anywhere with them.
Be successful with online dating by using caution, honesty, and by being a decent person. This is how you will achieve the success of online dating.
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Sunday, December 2, 2007
Monday, November 19, 2007
Waiting Around For Her
Copyright © 2007 Kathy Stafford, All Rights Reserved
Many of us have experienced what it's like to have a relationship end and to have our girlfriend leave us. When that happens, if we're not ready for to let the relationship go, we find ourselves asking just how long we should wait around for her.
There's no tried and true answer to this dilemma. For some people, a week is long enough. For others, it can be a month or even longer. It's all up to you and how long you are willing to stick around to see if something can be salvaged.
Naturally, it's going to help if you know why she left. Did she leave because of something that you did or something that you didn't do? Make sure that you're honest about her reasons for leaving, though. If she left because she said that you didn't spend enough time with her, but the truth is that you spent just about every waking moment with her, there's something going on that she might not want to admit. You'll have to address this before you head back into the relationship – if you ever do.
Rare is the break-up that has only one person at fault. If you're honest, there are probably reasons that it ended on your part, too. Make sure that you're honest with why you're where you are.
Now, you have to remember that she's left you once. Does that mean it's never going to happen again? If you're honest with yourself, you probably know that even if she comes back, there's a good chance that she'll treat you the same way she did before the two of you split up. As a matter of fact, she might wind up treating you even worse, figuring that you're still going to take her back, no matter what.
So, if she's left you, you need to figure out if you should even be waiting around at all. To be honest, even if you're head over heels in love with this girl, the last thing in the world you should be doing is letting her know that you're there waiting for her. Instead, you might consider dating someone on a casual basis. If that's more than you're willing to do, find ways to occupy your time – go out with friends, join a social group, take some evening courses. By doing this, you're showing her that you're moving on with your life and she's not holding any power over you.
When this happens, you find yourself in a position of having more control over the relationship.
Always remember that women know when they have a man who worships them. Even if they don't intend to treat him badly, sometimes they get a little thoughtless. They think he's always going to be there for them, always going to be forgiving them.
Do you really want to be that guy?
So, what do you do if she says she wants to get back together with you?
First, you play it cool. You don't immediately take her back and let her know that things are going to be the same as they were. Remember what she put you through, and think long and hard before you make the decision to take her back. If you decide you want her back, make sure that you have a say in how the relationship is defined.
If she breaks up again, walk away from her and don't ever look back. Instead, focus your efforts on finding someone who is going to love you and appreciate you, and not someone who is going to use you.
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Copyright © 2007 Kathy Stafford, All Rights Reserved
Many of us have experienced what it's like to have a relationship end and to have our girlfriend leave us. When that happens, if we're not ready for to let the relationship go, we find ourselves asking just how long we should wait around for her.
There's no tried and true answer to this dilemma. For some people, a week is long enough. For others, it can be a month or even longer. It's all up to you and how long you are willing to stick around to see if something can be salvaged.
Naturally, it's going to help if you know why she left. Did she leave because of something that you did or something that you didn't do? Make sure that you're honest about her reasons for leaving, though. If she left because she said that you didn't spend enough time with her, but the truth is that you spent just about every waking moment with her, there's something going on that she might not want to admit. You'll have to address this before you head back into the relationship – if you ever do.
Rare is the break-up that has only one person at fault. If you're honest, there are probably reasons that it ended on your part, too. Make sure that you're honest with why you're where you are.
Now, you have to remember that she's left you once. Does that mean it's never going to happen again? If you're honest with yourself, you probably know that even if she comes back, there's a good chance that she'll treat you the same way she did before the two of you split up. As a matter of fact, she might wind up treating you even worse, figuring that you're still going to take her back, no matter what.
So, if she's left you, you need to figure out if you should even be waiting around at all. To be honest, even if you're head over heels in love with this girl, the last thing in the world you should be doing is letting her know that you're there waiting for her. Instead, you might consider dating someone on a casual basis. If that's more than you're willing to do, find ways to occupy your time – go out with friends, join a social group, take some evening courses. By doing this, you're showing her that you're moving on with your life and she's not holding any power over you.
When this happens, you find yourself in a position of having more control over the relationship.
Always remember that women know when they have a man who worships them. Even if they don't intend to treat him badly, sometimes they get a little thoughtless. They think he's always going to be there for them, always going to be forgiving them.
Do you really want to be that guy?
So, what do you do if she says she wants to get back together with you?
First, you play it cool. You don't immediately take her back and let her know that things are going to be the same as they were. Remember what she put you through, and think long and hard before you make the decision to take her back. If you decide you want her back, make sure that you have a say in how the relationship is defined.
If she breaks up again, walk away from her and don't ever look back. Instead, focus your efforts on finding someone who is going to love you and appreciate you, and not someone who is going to use you.
About The Author:
Kathy Stafford, Relationship Coach, “I show singles how to get married and couples how to STAY married” Do you want more from your relationship? Go to http://www.dearkathy.com/ for relationship articles, advice, and programs. Get Kathy’s new book, “Relationship Remorse: Mistakes Women Make When Shopping for a Man.” and learn the right way to find a loving and committed life-partner. Order the book at http://www.relationshipremorse.com/ Copyright © 2007 Kathy Stafford / dearkathy.com. All rights reserved. |
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Sensations Of A Kiss
Despite the relative tastelessness of kisses, they are usually referred to as
sweet. Tasting of wine, strawberries and honey are some of the most common
descriptions of lover’s kisses, although some poets are more creative. For
example, The Song of Songs says, "Thy lips drip as the honeycomb, my spouse:
Honey and milk are under thy tongue."
The feeling of a kiss is also described in a multitude of ways, The pounding of
the heart, quivering of the limbs, pain in the chest and quickening of the
breath are some examples of this. The Persian poet Ha-fez, writes that he fears
he will “char her delicate lips” when he writes of kissing his beloved.
The Spirit Within a Kiss
"At what else does that touching of lips aim but at a junction of souls?"
Favorinus of Arles
The Babylonian goddess of love, Ishtar, was said to hold life in her mouth,
offering spiritual delight to those who worshipped her. “That rarest gift, the
honeyed kiss of love/ On earth, is sweeter bliss than gods enjoy,” she tells one
of her followers.
Another example of the use of kisses as an exchange of life force or spirit is
in the Egyptian legend of Osiris and Isis. When Osiris’ jealous brother, Set,
threw him into the Nile, his wife Isis searched for his body in the river and
breathed life into him through a kiss.
The Renaissance saw a rapid rise in the view of kissing as an exchange of souls,
and as an offering of the self to the other person. Allusions to kissing in
poetry included an eternal kiss, a swoon that carried the couple almost to
death, and most importantly, the diffusion of one soul into the body of the
other.
Perhaps one of the most potent notions of kissing revolves around the belief in
its life force and vitality. The Romans particularly believed that kissing a
dying lover would keep the spirit in the body longer. Ovid, particularly, mourns
that his wife will not be able to extend his life with her love because of his
exile. Kisses could even follow the dead into the Underworld as a comfort to the
shades of the dead.
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getaways or romantic ideas
then
http://www.intelligentromance.com will make being romantic easy
sweet. Tasting of wine, strawberries and honey are some of the most common
descriptions of lover’s kisses, although some poets are more creative. For
example, The Song of Songs says, "Thy lips drip as the honeycomb, my spouse:
Honey and milk are under thy tongue."
The feeling of a kiss is also described in a multitude of ways, The pounding of
the heart, quivering of the limbs, pain in the chest and quickening of the
breath are some examples of this. The Persian poet Ha-fez, writes that he fears
he will “char her delicate lips” when he writes of kissing his beloved.
The Spirit Within a Kiss
"At what else does that touching of lips aim but at a junction of souls?"
Favorinus of Arles
The Babylonian goddess of love, Ishtar, was said to hold life in her mouth,
offering spiritual delight to those who worshipped her. “That rarest gift, the
honeyed kiss of love/ On earth, is sweeter bliss than gods enjoy,” she tells one
of her followers.
Another example of the use of kisses as an exchange of life force or spirit is
in the Egyptian legend of Osiris and Isis. When Osiris’ jealous brother, Set,
threw him into the Nile, his wife Isis searched for his body in the river and
breathed life into him through a kiss.
The Renaissance saw a rapid rise in the view of kissing as an exchange of souls,
and as an offering of the self to the other person. Allusions to kissing in
poetry included an eternal kiss, a swoon that carried the couple almost to
death, and most importantly, the diffusion of one soul into the body of the
other.
Perhaps one of the most potent notions of kissing revolves around the belief in
its life force and vitality. The Romans particularly believed that kissing a
dying lover would keep the spirit in the body longer. Ovid, particularly, mourns
that his wife will not be able to extend his life with her love because of his
exile. Kisses could even follow the dead into the Underworld as a comfort to the
shades of the dead.
About The Author:
If you are looking for romantic
getaways or romantic ideas
then
http://www.intelligentromance.com will make being romantic easy
Sunday, October 7, 2007
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(( SORRY I COULD NOT UPLOAD PICTURE FOR THIS ))
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